[17] USA update #3 and coming out to dad (in detail).

new!flatmate Z is dying his hair for Transmarch, so I’m nabbing some internet time while he gets all blueified. It’s weird living with people again, but mostly in good ways. The place is pretty tiny (Z just bought a house, so we’ll be moving to much bigger digs in a month, but for now I’m [...]

[15] America and coming out to Dad (on Father’s day)

Quickie update. Flight got swapped to an earlier date (my dad’s the pilot, so when his schedule changed, mine did too), so I’m NOW IN SAN FRANCISCO. The weather is gorgeous, everything looks like a movie set, and the hills are brutal. I may have hamstringed myself just going out for coffee. (Dad and I [...]

[3] Amatuer nouns.

Pronouns are a bastard. I’m putting it out there. They’re tricky little fuckers, and I like to think of myself as being reasonably enlightened. I have a loose and adaptable definition of gendery goodness that covers a pretty broad sweep of identities*, but one awkward pronoun is all it takes and wham, I’m flat on [...]